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Saturday, January 30th, 2010
The phone call yesterday went something like this:
“Your boy got accused of cheating,” I said, speaking of PGA Tour golf icon Phil Mickelson who also happens to be City Girl’s favorite golfer.
“That’s impossible,” she replied. “There’s no cheating in golf.”
You be the judge. The PGA Tour outlawed golf clubs with square grooves, effective this year. They reasoned that they give the golf ball more backspin, hence lessening a player’s necessity to actually make a skillful shot. So at the PGA Tour’s fourth stop of the year at Torrey Pines GC outside San Diego, tour player Scott McCarron accused Mickelson of cheating by using a square-grooved wedge. At least three other players have used the same square-grooved club this month – John Daly, Hunter Mahan, and Dean Wilson.
The golf club in question is a Ping-Eye 2 wedge. It seems that in settling a court case brought by Ping against the United States Golf Association (USGA), any Ping-Eye 2 iron built before April 1, 1990 was deemed legal. The PGA Tour agreed to abide by the USGA’s concession in 1993. The Ping irons in question were manufactured from 1985-1989. No other golf club company manufactured square-grooved clubs.

So knowing that square-grooved clubs would be illegal on the PGA Tour this year, some savvy tour players scrambled to find the still-legal vintage Ping wedges. While at least Mickelson, Daly, Mahan, and Wilson succeeded, most tour players weren’t even aware that the obscure rule existed. Technically, the four did nothing wrong. They stayed within the rules.
But, golf is known as a gentlemen’s game. What other sport has players call penalties on themselves, even if no one else saw the infraction? They – in most cases – could get away with it, but it’s an honor system. “Gentlemen, honor” – that’s a heavy responsibility. It’s not the type of lingo you’d associate with the NBA or NFL.
Did Mickelson and the others cheat? Mickelson says, “No.” McCarron says, “Yes.” In question perhaps is the spirit of the rules versus some technicality.
Perhaps tour pro Robert Allenby’s take is appropriate. “I think cheating is not the right word. But it’s definitely an advantage,” Allenby said of the Ping-Eye 2. “There’s only a certain amount of players that can find them and I think it’s not right if you’re using them.”
The entire controversy may soon be a moot point. Don’t be surprised to see the PGA Tour find a way to outlaw the Ping-Eye 2 in the next week or so.
How are the players mentioned doing at Torrey Pines? After two rounds McCarron and Daly missed the cut and were sent packing. Maybe that’s a factor in McCarron’s strong accusation? Allenby is three shots off the lead, Mickelson four, and Mahan six shots behind the leaders.
Don’t worry, City Girl. Your boy still has a chance to win again this week.
- Mountain Man and City Girl http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
The blogsite of Jewell Real Estate Agency, Wildwood Crest, NJ http://www.JewellRealEstateAgency.com
Tags: Jewell Real Estate Agency, John Daly, lifestyle blog, Mountain Man and City Girl, PGA Tour, Phil Mickelson cheating, Ping-Eye 2, Robert Allenby cheating, Scott McCarron cheating, square-grooved golf clubs, Torrey Pines Golf Club
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Saturday, January 30th, 2010
The movie ‘Avatar” doesn’t have enough “curb appeal”, as we realtors say, to get us to go pay $12 apiece to see it. It’s just not the kind of movie we like.
So when the Vatican gave the movie a thumbs down, it piqued our curiosity. This morning we read a Letter to the Editor in the Atlantic City Press by Sharon Hutchinson of Buena Vista, NJ. Here’s her take on the Vatican’s reaction to the movie:

“As a nontheist, I am amused at the Vatican’s condemnation of the movie ‘Avatar’ as nature worship. A respect for and communion with nature is one of the most positive experiences that a person can undergo.
“The fact is, we depend upon nature for all the necessities of life. The religions that worship land – yes, those awful pagan religions – develop a respect and appreciation for our planet that is sorely lacking in our modern society. The belief that Earth’s resources are put here solely for man’s benefit has led to not only an estrangement from the natural world around us but also the plunder and devastation of the world.
“If I were to choose a religion, it would make the most sense to worship that which provides the necessities of daily living, rather than some ephemeral being who has supposedly placed man above all creatures. The destruction of the Earth and its resources is the result of such mythical and arrogant thinking.
“It is no surprise to hear this protest from the Vatican, as Catholicism and other forms of Christianity continue to lose ground as science and reason grow. That ‘Avatar’ has struck such a nerve is but another sign that religions are aware that more people are coming to the realization that it is the ground under our feet, not some spirit in the sky, that helps to sustain our very lives.”
- Mountain Man and City Girl http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
The blogsite of Jewell Real Estate Agency, Wildwood Crest, NJ http://www.JewellRealEstateAgency.com
Tags: Avatar, Catholicism, Jewell Real Estate Agency, lifestyle blog, Mountain Man and City Girl, nontheist, religion, Vatican
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Thursday, January 28th, 2010
It’s kinda sad that so many “twenty-somethings” in America have no clue about how to manage their lives. They make bad decisions when it comes to the financial aspects of surviving and thriving. However, they’re not entirely to blame.
We were both excellent students in school. We did our homework, got good grades, and didn’t cause trouble. What more could a school expect from us. We did our part.
But in retrospect, the schools didn’t hold up their part of the bargain. Upon graduating from high school (City Girl in Philly, Mountain Man in a Boston suburb) it was time to strike out into the great, big world awaiting us. We weren’t prepared.
Like most our age, we had never been taught in school how to manage our lives. We had never been schooled in how to rent an apartment, buy a house, finance a car, pay our utility bills, and set ourselves on a monthly or weekly budget. We hadn’t been taught how to apply for a job, do our taxes, or raise a family. Through 12 years of school, we had never been offered a course on LIFE.
Fortunately for us both, we were quick learners and we each navigated the bumpy road of life. Like every twenty-something, we still made our share of mistakes.

Today’s post-school young adults have had a different experience than us. The majority can’t form a complete sentence. They were more interested in MTV and video games and texting than what we called “book learning”. Much of that can and should be blamed on the parents.
We had three young men – 18, 19 and 20-years old – working for us a few years ago. None were married, but each had at least one infant kid. One had an apartment but was constantly behind in rent and facing eviction. The other two had their kid and girlfriend living with them and their maternal unit - one a mother and the other a grandmother. They had no financial responsibility for house bills as the mother and grandmother – both only semi-literate - had become “enablers”. Only one of the three young men even owned a vehicle.
One particular week, the guys worked long hours and on payday each received about $600. As we paid them, each was warned to spend it wisely. “Don’t blow it,” we said in a big brother-type way. Each had children to feed and clothes to buy.
Monday morning, they each returned to work with big grins. “Guess what we did?” they said proudly. Unbelievably, each rolled up their sleeve to reveal their new $300 tattoo. “You mean you each spent half your paycheck on tattoos?” was our heartbroken reply.
And so it goes. Each is trapped into a life of underachievement and wasted potential and hardship. The parents didn’t have the intellectual tools to give proper guidance. That said, didn’t our educational system drop the ball on several generations?
- Mountain Man and City Girl http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
The blogsite of Jewell Real Estate Agency, Wildwood Crest, NJ http://www.JewellRealEstateAgency.com
Tags: education, family finances, Jewell Real Estate Agency, lifestyle blog, Mountain Man and City Girl, schools, twenty-somethings
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Thursday, January 28th, 2010
After owning three successive Dodge Dakotas, we bought a new Toyota Tundra last May. It is a 2009 4-wheel drive pickup truck with the full-sized backseat. We asked the dealer to make three modifications as a condition of purchasing the vehicle. They agreed, then did none of them. No wonder car dealers have a reputation for “say anything to make a sale.”
Anyway, our Tundra was one of over four million Toyotas recalled last summer because of a reported problem with the driver’s floor mat slipping underneath the pedals. Our mat is secured by a big plastic clip and it can’t be moved even with force, so we filed the recall notice in the “if it ever becomes a problem” folder.
Now Toyota has begun a recall of over one million vehicles – again ours is on the list – because the accelerator sticks. An advocacy group, Safety Research and Strategies, has said that since 1999 Toyotas have had 2,274 incidences of “sudden unintended acceleration” leading to 18 deaths in 275 crashes.
We haven’t received the recall notice yet, but even when we do there is no hurry to get out Tundra back to the dealer. Toyota hasn’t yet come up with a solution to the problem. It’s some sort of multiple problem concerning interconnected linkage. It’s not just spraying it with WD-40 or replacing a single part and everything is okay.

Our Tundra is our third vehicle, so we don’t drive it often. We use it to get from our home in Cape May County, New Jersey to our vacation log home in mountains of Pocahontas County, West Virginia. It’s 396 miles each way.
We needed the 4-wheel drive in case of snow or ice going through the mountains, and the large size gives us plenty of room to bring along all the tools, supplies, etc that we always seem to need. But other than those trips (about 12,000 miles a year), our Toyota stays parked under cover in New Jersey. We each drive smaller, more economical vehicles in our everyday New Jersey life.
Toyota has put out some warnings of what symptoms to look for in advance of your gas pedal sticking. They say the pedal may gradually become harder to depress, and there may be a roughness or chattering when pressing or releasing the gas pedal. It that happens, call your Toyota dealer.
If the pedal does stick at full acceleration, follow these steps: Brake hard, but don’t pump the brakes, just depress the brake pedal enough without going into a skid. Then throw the engine in “neutral”. While the engine will still be running at excessive RPM’s, it won’t be pushing you along anymore. Don’t turn the engine off until you’re safely stopped and off the road. Got all that?
We’re sure Toyota will figure out a solution to the problem soon, then we can all take our vehicles to the dealer for the repairs. We’re just sorry that we have to go back to the incompetent dealer that we bought it from.
- Mountain Man and City Girl http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
The blogsite of Jewell Real Estate Agency, Wildwood Crest, NJ http://www.JewellRealEstateAgency.com
Tags: Cape May County, Cape May County blog, Jewell Real Estate Agency, lifestyle blog, Mountain Man and City Girl, Pocahontas County WV, Toyota recall, Toyota Tundra recall
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Tuesday, January 26th, 2010
Many scoffed 20 years ago at projections that internet retail sales would be a major factor in the future. “I’ll never buy anything on the internet,” so many of us said.
Well, guess what? In the third quarter of 2009, US internet sales were $34 billion. Out of a total of $922 billion in US retail sales, that figure represents 3.7% of all sales being done with a mouse and keyboard at hand in front of a computer screen.
For someone who knows what they want to purchase, the internet is the way to go. It sure beats driving 45 miles each way to a retail store to come away either empty handed because their product wasn’t what you wanted, or with something you paid 20% or so above internet cost.
Forbes recently released its list of retail stores that are in serious economic trouble in 2010. Some are a victim of the internet, some the economy, and some have been trumped by discount big box stores like WalMart, Costco and Target.
Borders and Waldenbooks may be the first to fold in 2010. Amazon.com has stole the show. It’s so much easier to order a book over the internet and have it at your door in a week. But there’s another factor that has doomed the book retail stores. I sell my book through Amazon and 79 other internet sites, plus my own website at http://www.RoadtripBabyBoomer.com . They are printed “on demand” and I make about $5 per book. But to put your book in a retail outlet you get about $1 per book, and have to buy back any they don’t sell at full wholesale price. That often makes authors owe money instead of making it. Hence, the big box bookstores have a less diversified inventory because unknown authors shy away.

Blockbuster is also in deep doo-doo. Netflix and avenues to download movies on-line have made going to the video store to pick out a movie a fading memory. The movie rental business is on its last legs.
Ritz Camera has also been identified by Forbes as a candidate for euthanasia. If you know the camera you want, it’s less expensive and usually less of a hassle to buy it on-line. And really, who needs film developed anymore?
Other outlets that Forbes put on its death-watch list are KB Toys, Zales Jewelers, and Starbucks. The first two are basically victims of the poor economic times. Excessive purchases of toys and jewelry are easily eliminated from a family budget as unnecessary.
As for Starbucks, they expanded too rapidly. There’s only so many yuppies out there. I’m a guy’s guy. I don’t care about a Sumatra and Guatemalan coffee blend, a Frappuccino, a Ski Cinnamon Dolce Latte, or an Espresso Truffle. I don’t know what those are, but I’d be downright embarassed to stand there and order one. Give me a break!
- Mountain Man and City Girl http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
The blogsite of Jewell Real Estate Agency, Wildwood Crest, NJ http://www.JewellRealEstateAgency.com
Tags: internet sales, Jewell Real Estate Agency, lifestyle blog, Mountain Man and City Girl, RoadtripBabyBoomer.com
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Saturday, January 16th, 2010
I grew up in North Jersey in the 1950’s in one of those “Leave it to Beaver” families. Dad commuted to work each morning in suit and tie, while Mom stayed home and attended to running the household. She got us kids off to school each morning after feeding us a hearty breakfast and packing our brown bag lunch. We were each given a nickel for our milk container purchase at school, later raised to an outrageous dime.
When we got home from school, Mom was there with milk and cookies, or some other goodie. The house was spotless and absolutely nothing was out of place. The beds were always made to the point of perfection and the hamper was empty. Clothes were hanging on the clothes line in the backyard.
We kids hurried to change into play clothes, then rushed out the door as Mom said cheerfully, “Dinner is at 5:30. Don’t be late.” Needless to say, a nice, hot meal of meat, potatoes, and a vegetable were on the dinner table at 5:30. What a life!
We had one car, which Dad used each day. To get anywhere, our options were to ride our bikes or walk. Mom was not our chaufeur. We kids (mostly me because I was the oldest) were expected to mow the lawn, rake leaves, and shovel snow. No excuses were acceptable.
But that’s not today’s reality. In statistics recently released by the US Census Bureau, concerning families comprised of a married couple with kids under 18 years old, you can see that the American way of life has changed dramatically from the Ward and June Cleaver, Wally and Beaver (okay, Theodore) days.
Two thirds of these American families have both parents working. That’s 17 million families where the kids probably don’t have a June Cleaver to come home to every day. Called “latch-key kids”, they come home from school to an unsupervised house. No wonder they live on junk food, fast food, and watch too much TV and spend too much time playing video games.
Now only 28 percent (7.3 million families) of fathers are the sole breadwinners. That throws the Ward Cleaver model right out the window. Another telling statistic is that in 4% of families (just under a million), the wife is the sole supporter. Maybe that’s why beer sales are up? Just kidding. A lot of that can be attributed to this recession which has eliminated many construction and trades jobs. But does Dad take up the traditional homemaker role? Only in 16% of the families, they say.
In today’s world, a family does without any frills unless both parents are employed. It’s the way it is. But how many kids can never share the memories I have of coming home after school to Mom’s freshly-baked chocolate chip cookies and a loving hug.
- Mountain Man and City Girl
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
Tags: Beaver Cleaver, Jewell Real Estate Agency, June Cleaver, Leave it to Beaver, lifestyle blog, Mountain Man and City Girl, New Jersey blog, real estate blog, Ward Cleaver
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Friday, January 8th, 2010
I don’t usually write about sports. Well, that’s not exactly true. Let me rephrase that – I don’t usually write about sports on this blogsite. I am a retired sportswriter, having penned over 5,000 articles from 1991 through 1999. That’s about 1.4 articles a day, every day, for nine years and eight months. But, that’s in the past.
Anyway, allow me to make some observations about sports.
Sports on television are being started too late in the evening. Last night’s college football championship game between Alabama and Texas started at 9:38pm Eastern time on a Thursday night. None of my buddies stayed up that late, nor did I. Our bedtimes are around 9:00. The same goes for kids, which are the future of sports viewership.

Forget the West Coast. Put games on at 7:00 Eastern, and let the Left Coast folks watch it at 4:00 in the afternoon. That makes a lot more sense and would definitely multiply viewership amoungst the old guys and young kids. Plus, guys in California would have a great excuse to leave work early to catch a World Series baseball game, NBA final, and so on. When I lived in SoCal, I loved to get up on a Saturday morning in the fall and flip on a Penn State football game at 9am. That was great.
The pro sports seasons are waaaaay too long. Hockey starts in October and ends in May, the World Series ends in November, the NBA wraps it up in mid-June, and the Super Bowl is in February. Give me a break! By then, only the diehard fans give a hoot. The casual fan is on to other things.
And yes, you guys ARE role models. Stop the denials. Kids look up to you, and you teach that it is alrght to be moody, disrespectful, not a team player, and, sadly, even a felon. Growing up, my sports heroes were guys like Sandy Koufax, Johnny Unitas, and Jerry West. They were squeaky clean, the proto-typical All-American boys. They didn’t carry guns, get in brawls, and beat their wives, unlike many of today’s “idols”. And then there’s Tiger Woods, who let down an entire generation of kids.

As far as sports for kids on a participation level, that too is slipping. The reason? Parents. It seems like every parent knows more than the coach. And the umpires or referees. How often do you read of a parent assaulting a coach or ref? Too frequently. Other parents scream at them the entire game. What message does that send? It’s no wonder that so many kids start dropping out of sports as they progress through school.
Kids want to play sports for the love of the game. They love the crack of the bat, the smell of a baseball glove or pigskin, the swish of a basketball net, or crunch of hockey skates digging into the ice. The sounds and smells and comradie of sports make it what it is.
So, as we age, we continue with sports by living vicariously as a spectator, rather than an athlete. But who can afford to take the wife and two kids to a game and shell out $500 for tickets and food? So we resort to TV and these ridiciously long seasons and late night games and infinite commercials.
It’s discouraging. Joe DiMaggio, where have you gone?
- Mountain Man and City Girl
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Sunday, January 3rd, 2010
Being a realtor has many rewards other than financial. There’s nothing like finding a young couple their first home, helping them navigate through the various stages of buying a property that are still so alien to the inexperienced. They’re thankful for everything along the way and often we become lifelong friends.
Here in Cape May County at the southern tip of New Jersey, we sell primarily vacation homes. For many families that have worked hard their entire life, finally being able to afford this second home at the shore is the fulfillment of a dream. We sell dreams. It feels sooo good.
But there is another scenario for a realtor that is not so pleasing. In fact, it is sad.
Here at Jewell Real Estate Agency, we have had several occasions where we have sold a home for an elderly person and moved them directly into an assisted living home.
Two of my favorites ladies were Helen Smith and Clara Carr. Mrs. Smith – as I called her out of respect and she called me Mr. Jewell – had lived in the same single family home in Wildwood since 1953. When I first met her and listed her home in 2005, her husband had been deceased for over 15 years. He had built the home himself – with a small apartment over top – and Mrs. Smith was proud of her property, as she should. The craftsmanship was nice, though the property was obviously outdated.
After a few months, we put the property “under contract”. In 60 days, Mrs. Smith would be leaving the only home she’d known for over a half century. She was upset, but knew that she was no longer physically able to maintain the property. With no relatives close by, I offered to move the belongings she was keeping to the assisted living facility 12 miles away. She was relieved and gave me a big hug. We each had a tear in one eye.
When the big day came, I brought along two of my maintenance guys and two pickup trucks. We moved her bed, favorite bureau and stuffed chair, an end table or two, and the few boxes of clothes and such that she had so carefully packed. Her family had come from out of state to pick through her possessions and take what they wanted, so we then packed everything else in the house and took several loads to drop off at a charity.
We got Mrs. Smith settled into her new room on the second floor of the facility, patiently placing each piece of furniture and possessions exactly where she wanted them. “A little to the left,” the 90-year old would request. No problem. I promised to visit her, then left.

Clara – she called me Doug – and I had history. A few years prior she was still on top of her game and sharp as a pin. We had belonged to an environmental group together and stood on picket lines holding protest signs. Nothing stopped Clara. She was right there along with the rest of us.
We sold Clara’s house in 2003. She was being pressured by a daughter to come live with them in another state. It was hard to say goodbye to my 75-year old friend and comrade. It was also hard to see her give up most of her lifelong possessions knowing she would be limited to one room of space in her daughter’s house.
And so, a week after moving Mrs. Smith to the assisted living facility I returned for a visit to see how she was making out. We hugged and talked for an hour about her new home and the world in general. Then she said, “By the way, I ate lunch with a friend of yours the other day.” It was Clara. I was dumbfounded.
A few minutes later I was knocking on Clara’s door down the hall. We hugged and had a tearful reunion. It turns out that living with her daughter didn’t work out, so having no other options she moved to this facility to be back in her hometown. We talked for a couple hours and Clara hadn’t lost a beat. She was still totally together in mind and body.
And so a couple years passed. I would visit Mrs. Smith and Clara around Christmas and a couple other times a year. Then one visit I discovered that Clara had recently had a stroke and her speech was difficult to understand. Still, we were both all smiles seeing each other.
On my last visit, in 2008, I sat with Mrs. Smith first and we talked and talked. I mentioned that I was going to see Clara next, but she warned me that Clara had gone downhill lately. “Don’t be surprised if she doesn’t recognize you,” she said. She was right. Clara was totally confused when I entered her room and didn’t recognize me. She might have even been a little afraid of this stranger. I left, disheartened by the loss of my friend.
Mrs. Smith died two months later. At 93, she was still mentally on point right up to the end.
It makes me sad to think of the loss of my two friends. But because of being a realtor I had the opportunity to really get to know these wonderful ladies. I cherish our memories.
- Mountain Man
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
Tags: blog, Cape May Court House real estate, Cape May real estate, Jewell Real Estate Agency, lifestyle blog, real estate blog, Wildwood real estate
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Saturday, January 2nd, 2010
Like all our fellow realtors, we know that there are all different calibers of realtors. But when you really think about it, what makes a certain percentage of realtors stand above the crowd is PASSION.
My wife Joyce and I opened our first office in 2000, then 10 months later opened a branch office. Later this month will mark the 10th anniversary of us working six days a week – we try to take Wednesdays off together but often spend half the day on our cell phones – and answering our phones 6am to 9pm every day of the year. Yes, I know what you’re thinking. We must be crazy to be accessible 15 hours a day, right?
But, you see, real estate is our life, our passion. Our kids are grown and gone and now we have the freedom of a 20-something childless couple, although our combined ages is 120. To avoid being kicked in the shins, I won’t say which one of us is older.
We are both early risers, so having our cell phones unplugged and turned on by 6:00 in the morning is no problem. We find that many of our clients, stuck in rush hour traffic around Philly or NYC, make use of this time to call us and discuss the transaction we’re working on together or the properties they want to tour on the weekend.
Nighttime phone calls don’t crimp our lifestyle either. Okay, we may be in the grocery store or a restaurant, but we’ve closed deals standing next to the broccoli and cauliflower display. Our norm, however, is that we’re sitting on the couch together watching a cable movie or nature program. Folks like to call us around that time after they’ve put their kids to bed and they finally have some quiet time.

In the warm weather months when the daylight hours last longer, we do have one other distraction in the evenings. We jump in my pickup truck, select a town, and cruise up and down neighborhood streets seeing “what’s new”. We notice new construction and homes newly put up for sale. We talk about it like two excited teenagers. And since the weather is warm, families are outside in their yards and we wave and our real estate signs on the truck doors get noticed. More than once someone has waved us down to talk about the current real estate market. That’s social networking in its purest form, I guess.
I know there are many, many other realtors across the country with passion for their trade. Obviously, any realtor who takes the time to read and contribute regularly to Active Rain has that passion. So do those who read the real estate trade magazines from cover to cover. And those continually participating in some sort of continuing education and earning additional designations.
To all of you, I tip my hat. Together, we’ve taken real estate sales from being a job to a profession we’re proud of. And love.
- Mountain Man and City Girl
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Thursday, December 31st, 2009
I’m not really the type of guy to make New Year’s resolutions. I guess it’s because I’ve pretty much always been in control of my life. Okay, so I always want to lose weight and I guess that is the one resolution that I might think about each December. But it probably has more to do with the overeating I enjoy from Thanksgiving through January 1st and it’s just a coincidence of calendar.
But, what the heck. Let me see if I can’t take a few things that bother me and turn them into New Year’s resolutions.
I vow to pay no attention to the Nostradamus prophecy of the end of the world on December 21, 2012. Give me a break. There’s no way some dude in 1555 could predict the end of civilization. As the stoned-out hippies used to say, “Far out, I see it, too.” Nostradamus will get the attention equal to Y2K, and fail as miserably.
I vow not to mumble under my breath when I see a woman covered in tattoos. Sure, I think it’s degrading, even belittling. But I’ll keep my mouth shut.

I vow not to make fun of religion. So what if it is a continuance of primitive pagan rituals that fly in the face of science. So what if religion has been the basis of wars and murder for many millineum, and still is to this day. I’ll just consider it population control.
I vow not to complain when a bunch of brats are screaming in a store, “I want that!” and the mother exerts no control, no authority. She’s probably dumber than them, anyway.
I vow not to get upset when the driver in front of me turns without signalling. Or hogs the passing lane while going 5 mph under the speed limit. I’ll just keep driving my beat-up truck that subtly says, “I don’t care, I’ll ram you.”
I vow not to get pissed off when I see a dog tied up to a chain out in the pouring rain with no cover, no food, no hope. Maybe the dog was Idi Amin in its last life and deserves it.
I vow not to speak badly about ALL politicians and our corrupt government system. There must be one politician out there with the ethics of Gandhi.
And lastly, I vow to not take seriously any of these stupid New Year’s resolutions. If I can’t bitch and complain and grumble, what do I have to look forward to in 2010?
- Mountain Man
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Thursday, December 31st, 2009
When I was a youngster, I thought everything always stayed the same. I thought the corner general store would always be there and always be called Percy’s. The same for Al’s Barber Shop, and the same for Green’s Luncheonette and Woolworths and the A&P. I was naive and too young to understand the evolution of change.
Then reality began to set in. First, the knifeman no longer drove up and down the neighborhood streets with a familiar bell ringing on the back of his truck. Mom would send me running to flag him down and she’d follow with a basket full of kitchen knives to be sharpened. A few years later there was a note in the milk box saying that Sicomac Dairy would no longer be delivering milk, eggs, sour cream, etc to our door. About the same time the local dry cleaner also stopped doing home deliveries. What was the world coming to?
Change continued through my teens and twenties. I used to peddle my bicycle delivering the Bergen Evening Record newspaper every afternoon after school. They became a morning newspaper, following an industry trend, and next thing you know newspaper home delivery was done by adults in cars at 5am. Yikes!
My next job was as a caddy at a golf course. We made $2.75 for carrying a golf bag 18 holes, and $5.50 if we were big enough to carry two bags for 18 holes. With tip, that came to $6 for about five hours work. I was on top of the world and “rich” compared to my fellow high schoolers. But you know where this story is going. Within a decade, caddies were as extinct as dinosaurs. Golf carts put us out of business. The end of an era.
With all these experiences in my rear view mirror, allow me to gaze into my crystal ball and look into the future. The biggest change I see is in the world of retail stores.
The internet is going to decrease the number of retail stores. We’re already seeing it in the demise of such venues as movie rentals – adios Blockbuster – and music stores. The internet allows you to download movies and music from the comfort of your home. And heck, just about every new movie is on cable within six months anyway, so why not wait?
Stores that sell appliances will be the next victim. Just ask Circuit City or Linens ’n Things. Circuit City had 576 big box stores and Linen ‘n Things had 571. All their stores are now shuddered and they sell, yes, on the internet only. Who’d a thunk it?
Just about any store that sells things that are also readily available on the internet is in trouble. The exception, of course, is things you need to touch or try on first. I’m not gonna buy shoes or pants from the internet. I need to try them on to make sure the fit is just right. And I want to physically see some items before purchasing to make sure they are of sufficient quality. A picture on the internet doesn’t relay the quality.
Stores that cater to “touch and try on” and large selection will survive, like WalMart and Target and Costco and such, because high volume of sales will carry them. But smaller stores, not to mention Mom & Pop’s, are in trouble. The cost of rent and utilities and inventory and employees makes them unprofitable, or at least not worth the bother.
Look around. I’m sure you’ve noticed how many empty storefronts are in your community. Nationally, the vacancy rate for retail stores is about 7% and malls is nearly 10%. It seems like more. Expect those numbers to increase.
But all’s not lost. Restaurants will survive and thrive. In fact, anything related to food will stay around. Who buys a hamburger or a cantelope on the internet? Doctors, dentists, lawyers, realtors, accountants and other similar occupations will continue to occupy a physical space in the community. So will hardware stores and lumber yards and florists and other “drop in and buy quick” businesses.
Thanks to internet sales, a good bet on the future would be to buy stock in FedEx, or UPS, and any other delivery company. Hey, wait. Haven’t we just gone full circle?
- Mountain Man
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Monday, December 28th, 2009
I’m stubborn, I admit it. I have embraced modern technology, but only as far as needed to be the owner of a successful real estate agency.
I’ve had a cell phone for 10 years, and now 85% of Americans do too, according to statistics. Judging from my older friends, I think I personally know many of the 15% who don’t.
I bought my first computer in 1993, just months before launching my own weekly all-sports newspaper. I didn’t know how to do much, other than type articles into Microsoft Word that I would later cut and paste. By cut and paste, I mean scissors and wax onto camera-ready full newspaper-size sheets.
I got my first email address in 1999, just prior to opening the main office of Jewell Real Estate Agency. A year later we purchased three more computers for our new branch office, run by my broker wife Joyce. While my wife jumped into the computer age with vigor, I still hung around on the outskirts. She was busy inputting data on our website, local MLS, and many other websites used to sell real estate. I stuck to writing material and articles into Word, then letting her cut and paste them (yes, computer cut and paste this time) into our various advertising venues.

Now as the “ought decade” comes to a close, I write a blog regularly and I do my research on many topics on the Internet. Wikipedia is great, and I can read online the newspapers from the many places I’ve lived. I’ve even abandoned the Weather Channel on TV for Weather Underground on the Internet. And I can get instant sports scores. Yee-haa!
But that’s where I draw the line.
I don’t even know what a BlackBerry is, nor an iPod. I don’t own a DVD player or DVR, and in fact don’t know the difference, if there is one. I don’t Facebook or Twitter or YouTube or Wii. Heck, the last video game I played was Pacman on a Commodore 64, circa 1984.
And don’t even think of sending me a text message. I don’t know how to read one or write one. The only thing I can do is delete the one you sent me, unopened. If you have something important to tell me, pick up the phone. I do answer the phone.
I don’t have a GPS. I’m a guy. I use a map, or else I’ll Mapquest first and compare it to my real live map. Okay, I do have a radar detector in my vehicle. That baby has saved me a lot of bucks, not to mention points on my license.

While I’m ranting, I don’t have tattoos and I think they’re degrading (spelled S-T-U-P-I-D). Same with piercings. I don’t watch reality shows – never. My TV is never tuned to ABC, CBS, NBC or Fox. I watch nature shows, movies, and occasionally college sports. Don’t even think I’d watch the Simpsons or Beavis & Butthead. I don’t do Pay-Per-View and I don’t download movies or music.
Also, I’ve never been in a Starbucks. I don’t have (or need) a life coach. I think cougars are desperate. And what’s this thing all the “under 30s” are doing with holding up different fingers? Does that mean something?
One last thing. You’ll never see me going around with one of those Mr. Spock things in my ear. What’s with that? I own three businesses and I’m a successful author, yet I hardly think I’m so important as to walk around needing 24/7 instant access to my phone.
Okay, I’m done. I feel better now.
You can perhaps see why they call me the Mountain Man.
- Mountain Man
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Saturday, December 26th, 2009
You probably have seen the 1993 movie Dave, which starred Kevin Kline and Sigourney Weaver. To refresh your memory, Kline plays Dave Kovic, an unassuming and likable man who heads a “temp” agency in Ohio.
Dave is hired by White House bigwigs as a one-time only stand-in for President Bill Mitchell, who has identical looks. When the President has a paralyzing stroke, the White House chief of staff retains Dave to impersonate the President to keep the political power in his court.
As Dave assumes the role of the President, he increasingly realizes that he can do much good for America and his humor and vitality energizes the country. After Dave and Mrs. Mitchell, played by Weaver, visit a homeless shelter that has a surprising number of kids as clients, Dave is touched. He is soon shocked to learn that the chief of staff removed a $650 million portion of the federal budget that was designated to fund homeless shelters. Mrs. Mitchell, who already hates her husband, is really upset.

Long story short, Dave rolls up his sleeves and really assumes the position of President instead of being a puppet stand-in. He eliminates fluff from the budget in restoring the $650 million homeless shelter funds. Now Mrs. Mitchell realizes that Dave is not her real husband, and together they conspire to change America for the better. Dave announces a plan to “give a job to every American who wants one.”
And that’s why I would like to be Dave for a month or so, just like in the movie. A common man got a chance to make a difference, to cut through the government bureaucracy of patronage and waste. To restore American’s faith in America, to bring common sense and doing what is right back to Washington, DC.
The movie was pure fantasy. But the dream of giving back our country to the everyday person and being led by someone with compassion and common sense is too much to ignore. It’s the way things should be.
Don’t you agree?
- Mountain Man
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Friday, December 25th, 2009
Everyone is blessed at Christmas, whether they are aware of it or not. And you don’t have to be a Christian for Christmas to have an effect on your spirituality.
I’m a perfect example. I’m not a Christian. I don’t buy Christmas gifts or have a Christmas tree. Bah humbug. The materialism of Christmas turned me off nearly a half century ago. And a lifelong examination of my religious beliefs and the religious philosophies of the world has pretty much made me conclude that I’m perhaps an atheist.

But I am blessed with a great wife, who happens to be my best friend and business partner. Her unbridled enthusiasm for Christmas makes that a time of year that I especially appreciate all she’s done for me and all that she means to me.
I recall a quote, “Love is the soul’s recognition of its counterpoint in another.” That wraps up my feelings toward our special relationship.
So I ask on this Christmas day that you not dwell on what things you did or didn’t find under your Christmas tree. Instead, think longingly of the ones you love. For it is that love that carries you through the other 364 days of the year.
- Mountain Man
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Friday, December 11th, 2009
Nearly a year into the Obama administration I think Americans can see that the No.1 issue in the nation’s mind – the economy – is still sputtering. Bank bailouts and all that stuff just aren’t working fast enough.
As Mighty Mouse used to say, “Here I come to save the day!” So here’s my simplistic approach to ending the Recession.
The United States of America has the highest bond rating possible – AAA. That rating means that the U.S. is not likely to default on debt. Thanks to the Bretton Woods Accord back in the 1970s, the U.S. dollar is no longer backed by the gold in Fort Knox. The American dollar – of which there are 829 billion – is backed by the government’s ability to generate revenue to pay down it’s debt.
New dollars are issued when the Federal Reserve elects to fund the purchase of debt, which is usually through U.S. Treasury Bonds. Done in excess, this can cause inflation, but bear with me.
The net worth of Americans is currently $53.4 trillion. Prior to the Recession, it was $64.5 trillion. In other words, we’ve lost 17.2% of our worth. By the way, $348 billion of our collective $53.4 trillion is household real estate holdings, i.e. your house.
That’s the background, now my proposal.

Let’s give each American household $10,000 tax free. With 105,480,101 households, that’s $1.05 trillion.
There are 7.7 million businesses in America. Let’s give them each $100,000 tax free. That’s a mere $770 billion.
So add it up and the American government can print and distribute $1.82 trillion. This isn’t money raised by taxes. We’re just gonna print it and give it out. There’s just one stipulation – the money can’t leave the country. It can’t be sent to relatives in Nicaragua or used to hire workers in China. It has to be spent in the 50 states.
Think of the ramifications. The boost to the economy will be incredible. Some people will pay down debt or save their homes, while others will buy TVs, cars, and yes, useless junk. Some might even use some of the money for booze, cigarettes, and methamphetimines, but that can’t be helped.
All this will turn into many of the 7 million people laid off from work since the beginning of the Recession getting gainful employment again. For every dollar currently in circulation, there will now be three dollars. Banks will start lending again and the good times will roll. States will see an increase in sales taxes collected, easing their budget pains.
The nay-sayers will yell that my plan will cause inflation. Sure, it will. But it’ll be manageable, maybe 10% at most and it will be a one-time thing, just like my giveaway windfall. But the trade-off of jobs and reduced personal debt is well worth it. The American economy will have the jump-start it needs.
Some might call my plan crazy. But at least I have a plan.
And I bet you’re smiling and already thinking about how you’d spend your $10,000.
- Mountain Man
http://www.MountainManandCityGirl.com
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Thursday, March 20th, 2008
Everything I feared about Dolly appeared to be true. As the dominant doe in our original group of four of West Virginia’s finest whitetail deer, it was basically up to her whether the the new outsiders would be accepted. Would she share the corn feeder with the three new deer, plus the pair she’d already intimidated, or defend it for the exclusive use of her group?
I could only hope she would share. There was plenty for her group – Ruthie, another three year old or more (and probably Dolly’s sister), plus their two yearlings Alfalfa and Darla. I was quite optimistic considering that 50 pounds of corn was consumed from Monday night to Thursday morning. I had watched the four deer for nearly a year and knew they could never eat that much in 60 hours.
Hopefully that meant that bossy Dolly was allowing the other five to feed. She was tolerating it, though somewhat reluctantly no doubt.
No chance. Dream on.
Thursday evening, I returned home around 6:30, just an hour or so before dark. Six deer startled as I pulled up the 300-foot gravel driveway, but they didn’t scamper right off. They stood and stared me down, as if wondering whether I meant them any harm. They sent me a message, “We’re hanging out.”

I walked from my truck to the new pole barn under construction, never lifting my head to look the transfixed deer in the eye. I checked out the progress on the barn, sneaking peeks now and then to see if the deer were still standing and looking at me. They were. This only happened once in a while in the past year – when they weren’t going to leave the feeder area for others to pillage.
I got into the log cabin and within 10 minutes the hill above the feeder proved to be a battleground for warring deer. On two separate occasions, large does attempted to approach the trough full of corn. Both times Dolly raised her front hoofs and made an aggressive display. They backed off. Two outlaw yearlings, in all their innocence, also made the mistake of approaching the feeder to eat. They were easily and summarily rebuffed.
Dolly allowed Ruthie, Alfalfa, and Darla to eat as much as they wanted while she stood guard, her head held proudly and defiantly in the air. I almost think she was forcing them to linger at the feeder and keep chowing down, just to show the other deer her contempt for them. Several times the foursome appeared to be leaving the feeder area, only to suddenly turn and head back, led by you-know-who.
My hope is that the other five whitetail deer will sneak back from time to time throughout the night to feed. Over the course of the next week, Dolly will begin to accept that she can’t defend the feeder 24 hours a day. Let the others feed. Have compassion for those three pregnant does, who, like you and Ruthie, will be giving birth in a month. You’re all deer. You’re all in this thing together.
Well, we’ll see if Dolly mellows out. My fingers are crossed.
- Mountain Man
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Thursday, March 20th, 2008
My solo visits from our home in Cape May, New Jersey to our log cabin in Green Bank, West Virginia have to be productive. It’s these times, when City Girl stays behind to run the real estate business, that I must make progress on some of the many home projects I have underway.
I arrived in Green Bank this past Sunday, with a construction crew due Monday to build a 24′ x 32′ pole barn with metal sides. They were scheduled to be finished by Friday. It’s one of those companies I found on the internet that does everything but the concrete floor, which gets poured after they’re done and gone. The barn-building folks are located just 88 miles from here, so it’s just about as local as it gets.
I was there to “supervise” and make sure that critical first-day decisions were made by me, since I tend to be somewhat of a perfectionist (some say “anal”). And supervise I did on Monday, making sure everything was done to my satisfaction. I had to locate bags of concrete for the crew by calling around to various supply stores, then helped pick them up. But after that it’s pretty straight forward. I wasn’t really needed, and I wasn’t just gonna stand there and watch them work.

To make effective use of my time, I had two local guys – my own “crew” – work with me on a tree clearing project. I would run the chainsaw and they’d haul the cut firewood and brush. We’d all done it together several times in the past year, so it was kinda routine now. We knew our roles, and how hard we’d have to work to accomplish our task. I could check in on the pole barn guys – foreman Duane, Norman and Clint – every once in a while and still run my own gig. All five guys – my crew and theirs – are good guys and decent human beings. What more can you ask?
We’re located in the Allegheny Mountains at an elevation of about 2,700 feet, or roughly a half mile. So there is very little flat land – it’s all up and down and sidehill. Cutting and hauling trees, mostly oaks, is a challenge. The goal of this clearing was to open a view of the mountain to the east while also benefiting from more sun in the cold months.
Lew and Clinton – my guys – started work on Monday by covering a bed of shrubs with mulch, a leftover task from October. Then they dragged all the brush I had created on my last visit in February to the burn pile. Tuesday found us cutting and hauling for six hours. The view was beginning to open up, but a few remaining strategic oaks still blocked the million dollar vista.
This morning, Wednesday, we tackled the last dozen trees. Knowing it was due to start raining by noon and then rain the rest of the day and night, we hurried along. By 11 o’clock, we were done. Just as we walked into the cabin to get the guys their pay, the sky opened up. We smiled a collective smile.
Meanwhile, the pole barn trio had a much less productive day. Their usual late start combined with the rainout made the 88-mile trip over four mountain ranges almost not worthwhile. But still, after three days, the barn is all framed out. Tomorrow the roof will go on and the five windows will be installed. I can’t wait to see the cupola and weathervane. Friday the insulation and walls go up and they are finished. A separate contractor comes one day next week to install the two garage-style doors.
Saturday, my crew, plus my main contractor Rich and sidekick Frank – will prepare the garage floor for concrete. That entails leveling off the gravel and dirt floor, then tying rebar in a checkerboard pattern for extra strength. We had planned on pouring the concrete on Monday or Tuesday, but with low temperatures expected to be about 20 degrees each morning that was out of the question.
By the time I head back to New Jersey on Sunday, the barn will be standing and lacking only the two cement trucks worth of concrete which we’ll tackle in two weeks when I return. The breathtaking view of Sunrise Mountain, so named by me due to the sun rising over its peak on winter mornings, is ready for City Girl to admire and enjoy on her next visit. All in all, my seven days in Green Bank will be remembered as satisfyingly productive. As usual!
- Mountain Man
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Wednesday, March 19th, 2008
I arrived at our West Virginia cabin this past Sunday, March 16. Now early afternoon Wednesday, March 19, the rain pours down and I sit reflecting on the events that have shaped the last three and a half days. A lot has happened, which I’ll expound on in my next blog.
This is a story about the local white-tail deer that share our 19 acres. Since moving into the cabin a year ago, we have come to recognize the individual deer. The first regulars to the corn feeder we dubbed “Our Gang”. There were two fawns, now yearlings, and two adult mothers. We nicknamed the youngsters Darla and Alfalfa, and the mature mothers Dolly and Ruthie, for our own two mothers.
We watched them interact, and quickly knew the pecking order. It was Dolly, Ruthie, Alfalfa, then lastly, Darla. After a few months, another mother and six-month old showed up. They stood off 30 feet, waiting for Our Gang, the dominate group, to feed first. When the two groups got real close to one another, it got tense. Dolly would occasionally assert her authority with slashing hoofs. Sometimes we’d see this new aloof pair around the feeder, and sometimes not for a while. But it did bring the resident count to six deer.
Yesterday afternoon, the two work crews left around 4:30 after a good accomplishment day. Ten minutes later I walked past the kitchen window and noticed three deer partway up the hill, guessing them to be from “Our Gang”. Moments later, I looked up and saw another group coming in from a different direction. My pulse jumped.

Discreetly, I peered out the windows and finally settled on there being nine deer. The trough that holds the feed corn is six feet long, with accessibility from both sides. As many as six deer at a time were munching on corn or licking the new apple-flavored salt block located in the trough at one end. I was grinning ear to ear. I couldn’t wait to tell City Girl.
I stood and studied this menagerie of white-tail deer. There were four yearlings, three two-year olds, and two that were three years old or more – Dolly and Ruthie. The two year olds have a more immature face, with the snout still not extended like the older deer. I pondered these three two-year olds who would each be giving birth for the first time in about a month. They wouldn’t be teenagers anymore!
Then I saw the big picture. Dolly and Ruthie will each have a fawn, as will the three first-time mothers. That means pretty soon there will be five new fawns – learning, exploring, and bonding. That brings the local population to 13 deer. How exciting!
But then I wonder – will they all stick around? Will bossy Dolly share her domain or drive off the others? There’s a mountain behind our property with a few hundred acres. Surely, they share the mountain. Can’t they share coming to the feeder?
My attention turns back to the five pregnant does. Oh boy, new fawns are coming. I’m as ready as an expectant father!
- Mountain Man
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Tuesday, February 26th, 2008
I have to snicker when I hear a youngster say that their goal in life is to be ‘rich and famous’. I usually tell them, “Rich, okay. But you don’t want to be famous.” The reason, of course, is paparazzi. Of all the legal occupations in the world, being ‘photographer of celebrities’ has to be one of the lowest levels on the integrity scale.
Paparazzi, as you no doubt are aware, will do anything to take the picture or video of a famous person. Then they sell it to some junk magazine or mindless website or television Hollywood gossip show. But the fact that they profit from such a shallow pursuit isn’t what makes them so despicable, though they are. It’s the lengths they’ll go to capturing the photo.

Imagine the life of a paparazzi. Sitting in your car day and night, staking out a celebrity’s home. Or standing on the sidewalk for hours at a time outside a restaurant that attracts movie stars or music idols. Your whole life is dedicated to taking some schmo’s picture. That’s no way to make a difference in the world!
If I was suddenly famous, I would definitely not want this surreal attention. You step out your door, a half dozen guys are battling to get your picture before you make it to the car. Go to the grocery store and they’re following you up and down every aisle. Take a Caribbean vacation, helicopters are hovering overhead or boatloads of photographers are swarming. Big brother is watching.
All of this clandestine photography is only made possible due to unquenchable thirst of bored and boring people who live vicariously through others. If Jane Public didn’t watch those trashy TV shows, buy those tasteless magazines, and support those hollow websites, the paparazzi would have no market for their product and they would just go away.
I don’t care about the everyday life of Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan, those Olsen twins. Not interested in Brad Pitt, Jack Nicholson or Macauley Culkin. I don’t care who’s married to whom, who’s sleeping with whom, who’s been arrested or in drug rehab or slit their wrists. I don’t care what dress they’re wearing, what style their hair is, or what restaurant they were spotted in.

Don’t get me wrong. I respect a good actor because they’re a good actor. I like their work, but I could care less about their personal life. Same for singers, musicians, comedians, or pro athletes. I shared a moment with you via your craft, but I don’t need to peek inside your personal life. You’re just a person doing your job, just like me. Is that weird?
For a photojournalist to chase these people in their cars, rumble through their trash cans, contact high school sweethearts, and turn their life inside out is inexcusable. Show them some respect. Let them live peaceably. Give ‘em a dadgum break!
With all the injustice and suffering in our world, and all the problems that need to be solved to save our planet, doesn’t chasing someone around to take their photograph seem unimportant in the grand scope of things? Isn’t one’s dignity and privacy cherished anymore? Is nothing out of bounds?
- Mountain Man
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Tuesday, February 26th, 2008
I am really tired of hearing the national media spout tales of personal indiscretions by high profile people. I don’t care about a person’s demons and misdeeds, just how they perform in the job they are entrusted with. Let me explain.
So much has been made about Bill Clinton’s sexual snafus. I could care less. Those things should only be an issue between him and Hillary. It’s their relationship, their vows, their betrayal, their problem. The same goes for Dwight Eisenhower, Jack Kennedy, Lyndon Johnson, Wilbur Mills, Gary Hart, and on and on. It should be between Ike and Mamie, Jack and Jackie, Lyndon and Lady Bird, etc. Did I really need to know about the Argentine Firecracker? I think not.
Now I see the media frantically trying to tie John McCain to some much-younger female lobbyist. Give me a break. I am only interested in whether these guys are good at their job. Are they effective legislators? Do they care about the people? Do they suck up to special interests? Do they have solutions?

The media focuses too much on personal stuff, which puts real issues on the back burner. I am intensely interested in the 2008 presidential election. I want to know the details, yes details, of how each candidate would restructure our economy, rebuild our worldwide relationships, end the budget deficit, promote alternative energy, etc. Instead, McCain has to defend himself against the lobbyist garbage, Obama has to defend wearing a turban, and Hillary has to defend … well, you know.
I have visited the websites of each of these three candidates. Pandering to the media and not wanting to alienate a single voter, each tells vaguely what they are going to do as president, but not HOW! I wanna know. Stop giving the media sound bites, and let’s talk nuts and bolts.
I also want to know why Congress is getting involved in steroids in baseball? Don’t we have enough serious problems in the world that need to be addressed? Shouldn’t the steroid thing be handled by major league baseball. They have a commissioner and their own bureaucracy. Let them deal with it. Why is Roger Clemens out lobbying Congressmen in Washington?
Now I hear speculation that Congress might even stick its nose into the spygate affair concerning the coach of the NFL’s New England Patriots. You’ve got to be kidding. The media is making a big thing out of stuff that is inconsequential to my life.
In baseball and football, teams have tried to intercept their opponents intentions since the sports originated. What pitch is the catcher calling for? Is the quarterback going to throw a screen pass or run an end around? Figuring the other team’s strategy has been an integral part of those sports, and until recently any means necessary was an acceptable part of the game.

So when did the introspective media originate? When did reporters stop winking and hushing up? In my mind, it was around the time of Watergate. Woodward and Bernstein took investigative journalism to another level, bringing down Richard Nixon. The same can be said for the national media driving Thomas Eagleton away for psychiatric therapy in his past, or William Loeb and his Manchester (NH) Union Leader probably costing Edmund Muskie a presidential election victory, only to later find out the charges were false.
Let’s focus on issues. Let’s have candidates and politicians talk about solutions. Let’s bring the process back to its grassroots. Let’s have honest debate, citizen input!
As for all the dirt, the muckraking, the philandering. Frankly Scarlet, I don’t give a damn!
- Mountain Man
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